Happy Father’s Day from an ASD Child (easy version)

To read the letter “the sensory way” click here

Dear Dad,

I don’t speak much (or at all), so you might not hear me say how much I appreciate all that you do. Fathers and kids are supposed to be outside and playing together on a day as special as this. I can do that! Maybe I’m not playing catch or kicking the soccer ball, but I’m having a good time.

I might not show as much love or affection as other children, so you may not see me trying to get your attention and praise. But, some of my stims are doing exactly that – getting your attention. I know that you are trying to figure me out, so thanks for being patient.

I sense things in a different way from others so the foods that everyone eats at this time may not be OK for me to eat. Even if they were, that Dr. Udell has taken away all of the good stuff! Someday I hope to tell you that I know how difficult it is to prepare a GF/CF barbecue.

Lots of people can be a problem for me, so ball games or crowded parks are not my favorite place. Thanks for understanding my issues, and taking us to the beach or just playing by the house so I won’t have a meltdown.

I don’t make friends very well and neighbors or even relatives increase my anxiety, so there won’t be a busy household on your special day. Thanks for keeping me safe and helping me work things out at my own pace.

Everyone is fussing around you today, so I know that they think that you are special, too. Somewhere, inside, I am just like every other kid who loves their Dad, even if I’m not sure what day it is.

Love you, Dad,

Your sons and daughters

I believe that reading the other way may represent the experience of many ASD patients.

Thanks to all the Dads of autistic children for your endurance and support.

Happy Father’s Day

Sincerely,

Brian D. Udell MD

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4 Responses to “Happy Father’s Day from an ASD Child (easy version)”

  1. joseph gautier says:

    I have to say Dr. Udell, that this is my least favorite of your posts; because I don’t come here to cry.

    thank you.

  2. joseph gautier says:

    After re-reading my above comment, I hope you know that my sarcasm switch was on.

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